Fear

Does anyone else have a fear about what happens once the baby gets here? Anyone with me on this? I have a fear about what is going to happen to my lady parts, yes, MY LADY PARTS.
My husband has that fear too....he is afraid to look at it during birth.
Anways! I also have a fear of going to the bathroom after giving birth. I fear taking care of the baby. I have a fear of loving the baby to much or not enough. Will I be a good mom? Will I know what to do? Will someone help me? Will my husband think I'm fat?
Will I feel bad going back to work?
Will I stress out about everything?
Will I be able to function without sleep??

CAN I HAVE A GLASS OF WINE NOW???